Monday, April 09, 2007

don't let life lead you..lead your life..

there used to be a time when i used to crib a lot..a lot means a lot..now i have reduced considerably..because of a recent realisation..tat there is a way by you can make everything you do in life fun..everything can be made interesting..its upto you..
infact even a quiz or assignment can be made very exciting to do..a challenge..just depends on your perception..on your attitude towards it..
whenever i am in a slightly sad mood i start analysing it and realise that its up to me to be happy or sad..sumthng tat always helps me to improve my mood is good music..nd just the thought that i should learn to be happy by myself..and i think i have learnt it a lot..whenever you feel like crying or feel sad, just get up , wash your face, put on good music and get busy doing something..i dont think you can't resist bad moods if you want to..
also a funda which i developed..everything that happens to you is because of you..there is no luck factor..somewhere or the other its your fault or your good efforts' results..so no point cribbing that life is unfair as its in your hands to make it better..and if you're losing time cribbing..well then suffer..
i guess this is a bit harsh..but really helps me to be happy..
as the heading says, dont let life lead you..lead your life..

13 comments:

wdp said...

If you feel like crying or feel sad then why shd u try to avoid it? u cant enjoy laughter until u know how to cry.

also, whatever happens to you is not always because of you. Your life is not an independent function. It depends on several others around you and it affects them too. But ya...this funda is good, if you are feeling responsible for someone. It may help ease your pain.

Deepak said...

"YEH KISMAT HAI KYAA JAANTA HAI WAHI HAI ZAMANE MEIN JISKI KISMAT BOORI"

PS: It's good that u haven't faced bad luck till now.I pray u never face it.But that doesn't means it doesn't exist..... must say whatever u wrote is true for you.

Anonymous said...

One can always run away from depressions and bad times. I never do!
Depressions are the best part of your life. They are painful, they make you feel pissed off, angry, dubious, regretful and the best way surely looks to run away by convincing yourself otherwise.
I love depressions because they are those rarest moments when you are 'really' with no one but your own self. It is when you learn about 'you' and learn to respect and accept your identity, and that is when life becomes so beautiful.
Try loving your depressions, they have made some of the finest men around the world!!!

Anonymous said...

One can always run away from depressions and bad times. I never do!
Depressions are the best part of your life. They are painful, they make you feel pissed off, angry, dubious, regretful and the best way surely looks to run away by convincing yourself otherwise.
I love depressions because they are those rarest moments when you are 'really' with no one but your own self. It is when you learn about 'you' and learn to respect and accept your identity, and that is when life becomes so beautiful.
Try loving your depressions, they have made some of the finest men around the world!!!

vidushi said...

Dear ye Mr anon kaun hai....
I guess sm1 spl..or may be....Beep:d
Still his thoughts are nice

gurveen said...

pata nahi kaun hai..but since its anon..must be for a reason so i dnt ask..jo bhi ho ...true..diff views certainly and to an extent i agree..depressions do make you love yourself more..
nd vidushi mr anon zaroori nahi miss anon bhi ho sakti hai:D

Sudhi said...

sahi kaha
both about your post and your comments

~$udhi :)

Karandeep said...

u write well... keep it up!

-karan
p.s. u don't know me ... i followed ur link from ravneet's reference...
http://krazyanand.spaces.live.com

gurveen said...

thanku:)

wdp said...

no new posting. Seems like you are busy with your exams. :)
all the best. DO WELL.

Anonymous said...

Life, we have been gifted of being a human being, think that way first and then rest of the things follow.. emotions, money are all later part's of life. first we should think how should we use this life for the betterment of this world....

what i belive is that emotions are nothing but mere phase which passes by asap.. you cry for something but then later on you realise it wasnt worth it.. it is just waste of emotion .. dont you think so..

anywaZ...

cheers gurveen

nimit said...

ohh my god .... gurveen and not cribbing ...... thats like 8 wonder ..... but chalo acha hai ...a l of us have changed for good ... and yes we have the full control of our life .. quantum mechanics has proved it ( read some bloke paper today which said it )so either you crib and cry over your problem or solve it taking it as a challenge .. good to see you have taken latter .... cheerz

nikhil said...

dayaaaaaaaaaa
never care abt life
live the day
and let the life lead you
you take care from where it stops leading you